To make it happen, you need to start a dialogue around your… um, as yet untapped opening. Does it scare you to think you can’t control the thrusts for a change, that you’ll never know the force, the frequency until it’s happening, inside you, at their whim? Or does it excite you? It’s overly simplistic to say someone being penetrated is always submissive and the person doing the penetrating is in charge – bottoms can dominate too – but it’s likely a woman pegging you will enjoy the shift in the scenario, reaching perhaps uncharted levels of intimacy and pleasure. You’re not giving anything up, you’re not showing a weakness. What are you really worried about? Looking like less of a man? Submitting or being brutalised? Pah, get over yourself. Being buggered senseless in pursuit of a better orgasm shouldn’t be seen as selfish or perverted the woman pegging you rightly has to get something out of it too. So much of hetero sex 101 obsesses over a man penetrating a woman that it ignores the exciting change of dynamic switching things up can bring. Strap-ons have been around for centuries and pegging – a man being penetrated by a woman – doesn’t make you gay. All your nonsensical insecurities – and so many of the world’s man-made ills, I feel – could be cured very quickly with a good pegging
